Enjoying happiness no matter how bad your current situation is!

How can one overcome their obstacles in life? Is preparation the key?? What about saving and financing?? Yes all of these play a part of our life process but there is a bigger impact on why we continue to experience such things in life.

We as humans tend to think so deeply into how bad our current situation is. This is something that we think drive us into our next step in life. We continuously think of ways to better our situation whether it is our living situation, our wardrobe, are hair and so on and so on.

You spend most of your time thinking and planning ways of getting out of the situation you are currently in that you forget about the actual moment your still in. When you have these what I call “I wish” and “I hope” thoughts all it does is prolong the life circumstance you have already been presented.  

Have you ever notice when you stop thinking about a particular thing that it suddenly just naturally happens. For instance you’re waiting and waiting for a particular mail package to arrive. So you continue to spend most of your day looking out the window waiting for the mail man to come. Meanwhile it’s a beautiful day outside. Go get some ice cream with your children or go to the park. No! instead you rather wait and wait for your package. Then suddenly the mail man pulls ups and guess what…. Your package didn’t arrive today! Oh how upset you are that you waited around all day for this package and for it to not even be here just ruins what you have left of your day!

This is the common situation in life! You wait and wait for your special “package” to arrive and as you wait for it you miss out on all these opportunities in the meantime you could be enjoying. Why wait for something that will eventually come and forget about the present moment that will eventually go. For every moment you have there is a purpose. What you may view as a negative moment or life circumstance is actually the universes way of teaching you something. You may have lost a job or your home and now you have to think outside the box to pay bills and stay afloat. There is a lesson in all of that.

Just be aware of your current situation and ask yourself what your lesson could be out of this. Maybe it is to save more money so that if you ever lose your job again you will be more financially prepared. Or maybe you should have held off on buying some expensive shoes or other material items because you forgot about an unexpected bill. These are those lessons that we tend to miss when we are so focused on how to get out of the current negative situation.

Be very aware and “real” with yourself when certain things take place in your life. It is not just because you have “bad luck” or any other excuse you give yourself. 90% of the time it is our own actions that cause our own reactions. Think about it.

work hard, receive little.........

Elementary, Middle School, High school, College.........

These are the steps to setting up our "perfect future" the, if you would say, "American Dream".

What if I told you that after all those years of studying and learning amount to nothing!
Imaging getting out of college or for some people even high school and learning how to pay bills and file taxes, you have to buy a car, get a apartment/ house. All of these things you have to do to become an "Adult".

Why is it that elementary thru college barely touches on this subject? Are we being trained to be the next "worker ants" of our society??

I know so many people my age , 23, who have graduated or are about to graduate from college and have no idea what to do next. You have all these years of education and training and 90% of the time you cant even find a job. So now your stuck with high student loan debt and no job but excellent training and education for......... NOTHING.

Have you ever noticed also that most jobs that are hiring are in "trade fields ", meaning dental assistant, medical assistant, computers( computer engineering, IT). These fields will always be available because we need them to make our country "work".

Its no longer about us as the people of America and about achieving our dreams of who we want to become. America and its greed has enslaved us in its system. Its about keeping the American system going and not about the americans as individuals.

I have been to two trade schools for two different fields and I am still fully unemployed.After going thru years of applying for jobs and other sources of income I had no choice but to make a way for myself.  I decided I would no longer go with the "system". For two years now I have been working for myself and it has not been easy but it has been the best decision considering what this county has to offer.

Would you rather work check to check and barely stay afloat??? Doesn't sound like much of a dream to me. Sound like more of an eternal nightmare or limbo if you will. How could all of this math, science, and everything else I hated but "had to learn" results in barely being able to survive??

What if instead of being trained to become another worker ant, we were influenced to embrace who we are and whatever our natural talents are as individuals? Maybe the crime rate would go down... Maybe there would be more natural flow of money in the economy..... Maybe even we could spend more time with our family and kids.. wow what a thought!!

I encourage and say to everyone do not allow the "system" to swallow you up and use you and leave you with nothing in return make your own decisions of what you want your life to look like. Release yourself from this countries brainwash of what " we have to do " but do what YOU WANT TO DO!! They want us to feel like we have to go to college and get a job and work for someone but is that what you as a individual human wants?? Do you want to work to build someone elses empire or build your own??  This is what our country, "The Home of The Free", has gave us, but its our choice to accept " the free lunch" [Robert Greene, 48 laws of power, Law 40 Despise the Free lunch] or go and get your own.